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When I teach of group of people how to work with their dreams, I ask each of them to remember a recent sleep dream to practice the process on.

Charon the Ferryman

“What if I don’t remember my dreams?” is a question that always comes up.  Every time.

“Think of a recent waking dream you may have had,” is my response.

What is a waking dream?  Well, a waking dream is something that happens to you in waking reality (i.e. when you are not asleep, meditating, doing trance work) that has the slightly surreal feeling of a sleep dream.

A waking dream is that experience of thinking of someone you haven’t seen or talked to in years and then running into them on the street.  Or being alerted by your dog to the blue heron standing in the small stream next to your driveway and then watching him walk out of the stream to your driveway to stand at the edge of the road, look both ways and then cross before taking flight (really happened).  Some experience out of the ordinary that Read More→

Categories Creativity, Dreams, Myth, Writing
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This week is a magical week for me.  And I don’t even have to wave a magical wand.

My retreat in the Berkshires

Instead, I am waving my purple pen, the color of ink I use when I am writing my book.  See, I am on a writer’s retreat in the Berkshire Mountains of Massachusetts  this week, and while dedicated skiers are trying to get in those last few trips down the mountain, I am working on my manuscript.

You may wonder why I’ve gone away to write when I don’t have kids or an outside job to distract me?

Good question.  Here’s my answer.

First, you know that if you Read More→

Categories About the Muse, Creativity, Writing
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I get it. I really do. Time is short and passes quickly. You are busy with a hundred and one things. And in today’s world of technology where information sharing and business occurs at the speed of nanoseconds, the oft-times snail-like process of creativity can become extremely frustrating.

So we look for ways to essentially microwave our creativity…

Insert creative project idea. Set the timer for one day, one weekend, or at the very slowest, 30 days. Push start and Read More→

Categories Creativity, Writing
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No man is an island, entire of itself; every man is a piece of the continent, a part of the main…” ~John Donne

Did you watch the Oscars? Or the Grammys?

If you did, you know that winners of those statuettes often get up on stage and thank everyone from parents, siblings, children, and spouses, to directors, producers, writers until they are dragged off stage still uttering thanks.

The equivalent of this for books is the Acknowledgements page, naming everyone from long-suffering hubby and family to agents, editors, research assistants, and critique groups.

Even though sometimes, as with the Oscars, all this gratitude can feel routinized and often meaningless, it nevertheless points to the fact that while creativity is often Read More→

Categories Creativity, Writing
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The year is almost over; only a little over three months before we celebrate a New Year with new goals.

What about this year’s goals? Was one of your goals to write that non-fiction book you’ve had rattling around in your brain forever?

Did you get it written? Did you even start it?

Did you know that, if you want a traditional publisher to publish your non-fiction book, you don’t write the book first? You write the book proposal.

Did you also know that even if you are going to self-publish, a book proposal will Read More→

Categories Creativity, Writing
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Many people are inventive, sometimes cleverly so. But real creativity begins with the drive to work on and on and on. ~ Margueritte Harmon Bro, author

“I love this story, and I love when it the writing surprises me, but sitting down to write is such hard work!” I complained recently to close friend and writing colleague, Zita. “Some days, I really have to force myself to do it…and to keep doing it.”

“Ah,” Zita said, “me, too. But I remind myself of the difference between a published writer and a wanna-be-writer. We sit down and stay with it. Others, many others, get up and walk away.”

Oh, the relief! Don’t you love it when you discover that a creative challenge you thought was something peculiar to you is actually something others, struggle with, too?

The hard work and extreme discipline required to write my book isn’t an indication of something wrong with me, after all. Read More→

Categories Creativity, Writing
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If you write only about the things that are safe, about the emotions that are happy and easy, then your story will lack the authenticity and power that readers hunger for.

Thursday, I had the privilege and fun of being interviewed by coach, author, colleague and friend, Adela Rubio. I talked with her about the importance of diving into the Dark to empower and enhance your writing. We spoke about some of the gifts of the Dark that lie in wait for us, including dreams and nightmares, memories good and bad, and the things we fear. But, we agreed that there is no story, whether fiction or nonfiction, without conflict, without those things that challenge us.

During the interview, I gave listeners an example of a writing exercise that I’ll be doing as part of my upcoming program, Writing from the Dark: Using Dreams, Memories, and the Unknown to Tell Your Story.

If you’d like to listen to that interview, do the exercise, and receive information on the free report I offered AND the special savings code for my upcoming 3-part teleseminar series, Writing from the Dark, then check out the interview at http://www.adelarubio.com/#

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